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2022.01.24 03:44 Icy_Ad_4161 AITA for having a bachelor party when my fiance was unable to have one and not telling her I did so?
Context: At the time I was 22, my fiance was also 22. We'd known each other almost since birth as she and her mother moved in next door when we were both a few months old. We'd been friends for a long time and when we started College we started dating. By the time we started University, we'd moved in together in our own flat. 6 months later we were engaged.
One of my friends (let's call him Adam) had a bit of money as his parents had died and left him an inheritance. Adam had been diagnosed with a type of incurable cancer so his dating life didn't exist and he didn't see a wedding on his horizon. So he offered to pay for our wedding. Adam had said that he wanted to experience a "traditional white wedding" (which I and Fiance were planning anyway) even if it wasn't his own. Our parents were already paying for most of our wedding for us but we let Adam pay the rest. My fiance didn't want there to be either a bachelor or bachelorette party as she was unable to drink alcohol and felt this would ruin the mood of a bachelorette party and wanted me to support her by doing the same (I don't drink by choice so at the time I agreed).
Whilst at my parent's house, me, my fiance, both mine and my fiance's parents and Adam were discussing wedding plans; from cakes to decor to how long our guest list was. Adam asked about the bachelor and bachelorette party. (This was the following day and I'd forgotten to tell Adam our plan). Both sets of parents looked expectedly at us, but it was my Mum who asked directly:
"Yes, what are you doing for your last unmarried get-together?"
"Actually Mum we've decided we won't be having either a bachelor or bachelorette party."
My mum seemed disappointed until I explained that because F's medical problems prevented the consumption of alcohol I would show support and solidarity by not having a party. This is when Adam almost ruined our friendship.
"Well just because she can't drink doesn't mean you can't have alcohol-free parties?"
F's Mother: "besides I don't want my daughter ruining your perfect wedding."
I was stunned. F started tearing up and excused herself from the room. I followed.
F's Mother: "What did I say?"
F: "It's fine, it's just a little party have fun."
Me: "No, its principle now. I'm not going, Adam will see my perspective when I talk to him we just won't tell anyone who doesn't need to know that we're not having them."
We agreed on this plan and went back into the living room.
Three weeks later Adam came to our flat. He had leaflets for venues for a bachelor party. F was at work.
"I know what you said, but this may be my only chance for a bachelor party and it would be a perfect time to take photos to remember me by."
He took me by surprise. I didn't want to let Adam or F down... I agreed to go but said that F shouldn't find out as it would upset her.
She found out that night when Adam 'accidentally' booked a limo to our flat instead of his. She was annoyed that I had ignored her request and had a bachelor party. As I left she called me a butthole and slammed the bedroom door.
When talking to her later she said she wasn't annoyed that I hadn't told her but that her pleas for a no-bachelor party had been ignored and that she felt betrayed. AITA?
Update: We got married a few months later, have been married now for 3 years and have a beautiful baby boy.
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2022.01.24 03:44 throwawaycbnmkhb Did I mess up my chances?
I[15M who turns 16 soon] met this girl[17F] and I think we both mutually like each other pretty well. Yesterday, we agreed to go to a pizza place and frozen yogurt place together which is really cool. Today I was on the phone with her and I mentioned that I was 15, which I was never gonna lie about my age but I was gonna try to mention it when I was confident it wasn’t gonna weird her out too much which would be when she knows what type of person I am.
Like I’m not attracted to younger girls but I’d date one if it was an age gap within reason and she proved she’s mature enough to handle me. She seems to like the fact I’m interesting (I do A LOT of activities) and our humor is like the same. When I first met her, it felt like I was talking to one of my close choir friends.
When I accidentally mentioned my age, she was in disbelief but she didn’t seem too different. It felt weird but I’m thinking that was in my head tbh. I know after the call ended, I asked if she wanted to meet in person tomorrow just to meet and talk for a few minutes (before we hang out for a long time Thursday) and she said she was down. I know she’s insecure about her glasses but I really like them so I told them I thought she was cute with them and she said I was adorable which could mean in the way I meant it or in a different way.
I just know I really like her and I really don’t want to lose her. I’ve already prepared myself to handle it as a failsafe but I’ve never felt so comfortable with someone in this short of a time span. Did I mess up? Do y’all think things are still going good?
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I got a dui with a minor. (I know, it was a horrible mistake), no endangerment charge, CPS did not terminate any rights or do a safety plan, but my ex of my child who was not with me is withholding her. I plan to file in court because we have no agreement, which means he doesnt have a right to withhold her but theres also nothing i can do about it. I have been her primary caregiver her whole life so this has been traumatic I have signed up for rehab and i go to AA, what else can i do to show the court i am committed to sobriety and her safety? What would a typical sequence of events be?
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I'm going on a trip for 8 days and I'm really wary of automatic feeders and feed blocks. I've had bad experiences with both in the past and I've seen a lot of bad reviews for even the highest rated ones. It would also be free this way, because I've already got some culls I don't mind feeding to her and I can source pest snails easily. It's just her in a 5.5g and I already know she's got no problem hunting live foods. She's not very aggressive and I'm reasonably sure she won't just kill them all immediately. I was just wondering if anyone had tried something similar and what the results were? Apologies if this is a stupid question, it's just an idea I had and I wanted to bounce it off people with more fish knowledge.
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