Please help me understand my friend better.

2021.12.09 08:27 Sweetberry4359 Please help me understand my friend better.

Hi. I'm 17, and with the help of Dr.K, I have come to become what I think is a fairly good person. I'm obviously not qualified to diagnose anyone and don't really understand mental health all that well outside of my own experience, so I would greatly appreciate some other perspectives and advice. :D
My friend is 18, she has had a very unforgiving life. I will call her Allie. Allie has been in and out with an abusive relationship with her mom and boyfriend, and she seems to have trouble coping with everything. She seeks validation from others very often, and does not view herself in a very good light. Her boyfriend left her with self esteem issues, and she feels like even though she did everything she could for him, she was not enough for him. She lives with her mom and her step-father. Her step father treats her terribly, and takes out his anger on her mom. Her mom then will blame Allie for his anger. The police and CPS have been involved multiple times I believe, but with no change.
Allie recently has been putting things together and has been happier with herself and her future. She's currently in the process of moving on from her boyfriend, and pursuing hobbies that make her happy. She messaged me tonight to talk about her feelings and I had a hard time understanding. Allie described herself as stupid. She said that although she destroyed everything that connected her and her boyfriend, he still "capsizes her head" and she "doesn't understand what has her so trapped". She also says that "no matter how far I shove him down the abyss, he always comes back" referring to her thoughts I think. She constantly thinks it's her fault he left. I wont get into the details of it, but I do know he did a lot worse holding up his side of the relationship than her.
After this she said she felt tricked by him and her mom, said she felt uncomfortably empty, and couldn't hear her own thoughts. She started listening to music to drown it out, and I think she passed out I have no clue lol. She also has a history of "seeing herself in third person" and having what she says are manic breaks. She also often runs away from what is happening or coming to her, and has trouble saying no.
I apologize if anything is unclear or needs more context, I'll be happy to provide. This is just my way of trying to fit it in a reddit post. I have no clue what I'm doing but I want to understand her better. Allie has been an amazing friend and companion and it hurts me to see her like this. I know I can't force her to do anything, but is there anything I can do to encourage/offer healthy ways to deal with what is going on in her life?
Thank you.
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