2021.10.18 21:39 chish_ Tips for speaking up in class/contributing to discussion
Introvert here. I am currently in my first semester of grad school for my MPA. I seem to have a hard time speaking up in class, unless I'm called on. Basically, contributing to discussion in front of the whole class gives me anxiety. I am prepared for class and have no problem contributing in smaller groups. Not sure if anyone has tips on how to speak up, gain more confidence, etc. Slowly working on it, but sometimes I feel like I'm not getting anywhere, especially in classes where participation is a part of the grade.
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2021.10.18 21:39 Swipamous wizard to magic ratio
2021.10.18 21:39 GoroMari [THE END] & [Naisho] Lyrics and discussion about AiNA's first album and EP
I've translated Aina's first album and EP. Here the link
I really liked the album and I think I had a deeper look into Aina's universe while reading the lyrics.
Those are really intenses and beautiful songs, so I hope you'll enjoy it too.
Take note that I'm still not fluent in Japanese nor English.
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2021.10.18 21:39 I_DoStufffYT discord_irl
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2021.10.18 21:39 Alinta_Arts The Darkest of Dungeons (Art by @Alinta_Arts)
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2021.10.18 21:39 indigofohg New to LA but bored out of my mind
Title is appropriate for my feels. I work an 8am-5pm M-F career. I am working from home full time which I honestly hate, have been here 3 months and am by myself- I don't know anyone here. This city seems incredibly boring now tbh. But I know I have a limited scope of what's going on around here. Is LA still experiencing a lull because of Covid? Are things always this quiet at night? And how do I meet people after work? I always see interesting Meetups but they're during my work hours.
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2021.10.18 21:39 mtaee2 Gang Wars
Not sure if this has been done already, but in an all out gang war who wins between adult Toman (merged with Tenjiku) vs Bonten. If I'm going to choose who will win, then I'm goin with Adult Toman, due to Kisaki being a genius and ruthless, along with of course Mikey and Izana. Those three alone is what probably makes that version of Toman the most powerful gang in the series. Let me know what you all think.
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2021.10.18 21:39 Efilnikufecin I became an alcoholic due to Social Anxiety
I was pretty normal socially in my early years, the anxiety started when I became a teenager and was hijacked by hormones. I slowly became really quiet and awkward, only a close circle of friends, didn't have much luck with girls, hell I couldn't even speak to them so that's to be expected!
I was eventually at a point where I could barely walk down the street due to panic. Everyone was looking at me all the time, everyone was judging me, everyone was laughing at me. I couldn't breathe when I was outside, I'd be hyperventilating. I'd be constantly focused on if I was moving weirdly or doing something embarrassing or weird. I physically couldn't speak to people, my throat would close up. I'd be shaking. I remember once being stood in the middle of town frozen in one spot. I literally couldn't move my legs. At this point I was also depressed and suicidal. I never got any help with any of this as I didn't want anyone to know. I don't know how they apparently never noticed! After all I was convinced everyone was watching me all the time so I wonder why they didn't??
I discovered alcohol at 15 but really got started at 17 and it was like a miracle cure. It was like a fucking split personality disorder, I was someone else when I was drunk. Super confident, I'd walk up and talk to anyone. And embarrass myself obviously. I'd blackout drunk every single time because I never wanted the feeling to end. I didn't want to go back to being scared and I now had my superpowers.
I didn't know what withdrawals were or that they could even happen in the early years, I just though my anxiety was getting worse and the physical roughness was just being hungover. The increasing anxiety made me drink more. Then inevitably became a vicious circle. At first I would have a night out each weekend, which increased to Thursday to Saturday, hey I was a student! Then I was made redundant from my job. What even is a weekend any more? I'm now too much of a mess to interview and find a new job. This descended to me drinking mouthwash in the bathroom so I wasn't a quivering mess around the family but they also couldn't smell it on me.
I had young children and this is what I was now. This was the moment that I hit rock bottom.
It's been 4 years now and I haven't had a drop. The anxiety was unbelievable at first but it couldn't be worse than what I'd become at that point. I've slowly therapised myself and started to understand how everything happened the way it did and why I've felt the way I have in the past. Getting to the root of my anxiety and feelings of self hatred was the important thing. I've restructured my thinking and have a totally new life philosophy that sees things in a much more positive light. My brain was just wired up completely all over the place.
I still get anxiety more than the average person, I still get a bit shaky and choked up in situations like interviews or speaking in front of a group but I'm still getting better every day and my life is unbelievably good now. I've got goals to work towards, a great family, good relationships, an exciting career ladder to climb and so much to look forward to.
I don't know why I felt compelled to write this as there's no real purpose but hopefully if anyone is as bad as me they get some comfort from knowing it can get better.
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2021.10.18 21:39 nLuk19 Alleiniger Hausbau mit vorhandenen Grundstück
Erstmal Hallo Reddit und Community. Danke für eure eventuelle Aufmerksamkeit und sorry falls ich das hier nicht ganz richtig angehe, ich bin neu auf dieser Plattform.
Ich bin mir aktuell ziemlich den Kopf am zerbrechen. Ich bin 22 Jahre alt, alleine, wohne noch im Eltern-Haus, und plane meinen Auszug. Ich spiele mit dem Gedanken ein Hausbau in den nächsten Jahren an zu gehen, und frage mich ob ich dazu finanziell in der Lage bin bzw. das überhaupt die beste Idee ist.
Erstmal zu mir und meiner Situation. Bei dem Auszug herrscht kein Zeitdruck. Wir (meine Eltern und ich) wohnen in einem Eigenheim, aber irgendwann möchte man dann doch schon mal raus. :) Ich habe einen Realschulabschluss (MSA), bin unbefristet fest angestellt, und verdiene 2000€ Netto. Abgezogen bereits ~200€(Brutto) Betriebliche Altersvorsorge. Ich fahre zur Zeit ein recht neues Auto (VW POLO; Erstzulassung 2020). Dieses besitze ich bereits schuldenfrei. Ist bei der Hausfinanzierung aber denke ich nicht relevant?
Eigenmittel habe ich aktuell rund 10.000€ angespart. Nun der interessante Part: Ein direktes Familienmitglied hat mir ein recht schönes Grundstück in einer Wohnsiedlung angeboten. "Kostenlos". Ich müsste für Notar, Grunderwerb etc. aufkommen. Das Grundstück hat ca. 400m² und liegt in einem "sportlich bepreisten" Gebiet Deutschlands. Der Quadratmeter in der Siedlung / in dem Gebiet wird mit ungefähr 400€/m² berechnet.
Nächsten Monat habe ich einen Beratungstermin bei meiner Hausbank. Ich frage mich aber natürlich ob das die richtige Entscheidung ist, und ob das für mich finanziell nicht ein bisschen hoch gegriffen ist. Es fühlt sich finde ich nicht wirklich richtig an das Grundstück "zu stauben" zu lassen und Miete an eine fremde Person zu zahlen. Sollte ich erstmal in eine Mietwohnung ziehen fällt es mir natürlich auch deutlich schwerer signifikante Geldsummen an zu sparen. Wenn nicht jetzt ist es vielleicht mit der richtigen Planung später möglich etwas auf dem schönen Grundstück zu bauen.
ich bedanke mich schon mal über Anregungen und eventuelle Tipps. :)
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2021.10.18 21:39 feralkatze Yo, I promise I was just joking!
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2021.10.18 21:39 BidoofMaster_ wow so evil
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2021.10.18 21:39 tiaraworeacrown This is one the BEST BL manhuas out there, but the latest chapter is 46 and it was updated two weeks ago 😭 Does anyone know anything about the next chapters? It's Chinese raws are at 90+ chaps, and the unofficial names for this manhua are “Back Before Dawn” and “Crack of Dawn”
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2021.10.18 21:39 tectactoe I opted out of child tax credits back in June. My wife did not. (We file jointly.) She has received three tax credit checks so far, but they've all been different amounts - 180, 202, and now 300...Why is that?
I do understand that filing jointly would require both spouses to unenroll from the advance payments, otherwise the still-enrolled spouse gets "their portion" of the tax credit. I opted out of it but knew my wife would still be receiving her portion.
However, I assumed this would result in six checks that were more or less the same amount. The first one that arrived was around $180, the second about $202, and the third just arrived today at $300. I'm just wondering how/why the check amounts keep increasing...Wasn''t the idea just to take the total amount owed and split it evenly by six?
We have one three-year-old who was born in 2018, and we had our second baby this year, March of 2021, if that makes any difference.
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2021.10.18 21:39 heywannafightaboutit A lot of Discmania and some others
Hello everyone, I've posted these before but we're going to give it another go! A lot of these are out of my old bag but a few have only been field tested or only have storage wear. I haven't thrown for a few years now so forgive me if I don't know all the characteristics or some of the inked weights have worn off but I'll do my best to remember or try to find an invoice from when I purchased. Let me know if you need more pics or video to get a better idea of condition/run/shape/whatever. Thank you for looking, I'll keep this post updated with what has sold.
Left to right, Top to bottom
|Disc||Color||inked weight/kitchen scale weight||Condition||Available?|
|Star Teebird||Yellow||175/173.1||6/10 rim ink||Yes|
|DX Thunderbird||Blue||170/169.5||8/10 no ink||Yes|
|C-Line CD3||Pink||?/171.3||9/10 no ink||Yes|
|C-Line CD3||Pink||?/168.7||8.5/10 no ink||Yes|
|C-Line CD3||Blue/Purple||172/173.3||9/10 no ink||Yes|
|DX Teebird||Yellow||?/168.2||7/10 ink||Yes|
|Z line Buzz OS||Pink/Orange||?/174.5||8/10 rim ink||Yes|
|D-Line P2||White||175/176.0||8/10 no ink||Yes|
|S-Line PD2||Blue Swirl||175/175.2||8/10 ink||Yes|
|C-Line PD Luster||Yellow||175/173.7||9/10 no ink||Yes|
|Blizzard C-Line||Pink||?/142.5||8.5/10 rim ink||Yes|
|VIP Harp||White||174/174.5||8/10 rim ink||Yes|
|Cryztal Buzzz||Blue||?/181.1||8/10 ink||Yes|
|P-Line PD Freak||Red||175/174.5||7.5/10 rim ink||Yes|
|P-Line P2 Psycho||White||167/167.4||7/10||Yes|
|ESP Surge First Run||Red||172/172.7||7/10 rim ink||Yes|
|C-Line FD3||Green||175/174.0||8/10 rim ink||Yes|
|Metal Flake P2||Orange||?/175.0||8/10 rim ink||Yes|
|Z Line Buzzz SS||Blue/Orange Tye Dye||?/177.5||7/10 ink||Yes|
|S-Line PD||Yellow||167/168.2||7/10 rim ink||Yes|
|S-Line PD||Yellow||167/168.1||7/10 rim ink||Yes|
|S-Line DDX||Orange||167/166.7||9/10 no ink||Yes|
|C-Line PD||Green||?/176.4||8/10 no ink||Yes|
2021.10.18 21:39 joburgexpat Out of the Shadows: Christopher Steele defiant on dossier, says Trump still 'potential' threat
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2021.10.18 21:39 DeLudooo RTA consistent teams
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2021.10.18 21:39 Good_Companyy I also bought a new controller today Free 14 Day Game Pass for anyone, enjoy!
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2021.10.18 21:39 serial_dev Flutter 101 Podcast - Lightweight Isolates in Flutter and Dart with Maksim Lin
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2021.10.18 21:39 raspberry_lady I'm performing in an indie band on Friday and was wondering if this outfit was too weird?
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2021.10.18 21:39 Hench_Herbivore Can We Make 4 Day's Budget Vegan Meals In 35mins?! We challenged ourselves to batch cook 4 day's worth of budget vegan breakfasts, lunches and dinners in 35 mins...! Breakfast: Walnut & Blueberry Oat Bake Lunch: Mediterranian Couscous Salad Dinner: Lentil Dahl with Buckwheat
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2021.10.18 21:39 helkeal Willing to make some Deaf/HoH friends, NDs are also welcome (a fellow ND, 18/m is here)
At this point of life, I realised that I have never really heard anything with a full capacity and it became increasingly noticeable for me and the surroundings that I'm suffering from a hearing loss with some degree (I am to go and get diagnosis next year).
At meantime, I'd like to make some friends with Deaf/CODA/HoH people to get motivated a little to learn ASL or any other sign language.
I'm a freshman at university where I major in Neo-Latin (Romanic) languages and have developed quote a fascination of a language, when I studied English in my HS.
I started learning ASL but can't really do anything yet apart from greeting and gesticulating my name, but I feel a need to become a conversational so if you're somewhat fine with watching my attempts to sign something, I'm more than glad!
Here are some obsessions of mine:
2021.10.18 21:39 1guard Factory New Gift Wrapped War paint
2021.10.18 21:39 Correct_Barnacle7914 oc
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2021.10.18 21:39 DagwoodDusseldorf The Monroe Block, 1968
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